LOVE ACTUALLY!

It’s not about the movie ‘LOVE ACTUALLY’, it’s about what reality showed me.

I think, no no, I am damn sure that no one in the world can know anything about what love actually is, about what a person feels really and how the world becomes so beautiful after that unless being in love actually! Love’s a feeling only, a feeling that you can experience, never a thesis that you can read and understand. Why do you think that different people have different definitions of what love is? It’s because it is so filled with vast amount of feelings that no one can describe love completely in words, simply because ‘just words are not at all enough’! Ask yourself: “how can you write the silent words that you hear and feelings that you get?” You describe them in words by giving some analogy to it but never the ‘that same feeling’…..

If you ask me what love actually is? I don’t know exactly what it is…but can tell you a few things….. I think love is actually waking up in the morning and having the first thought of your girl and the last thought before going to sleep. You travel hundreds of miles just to spend a while with her! Just walking in some place for a long time without remebering what made you start doing this in the first place. Wondering all the time what she must be doing then. Whenever listening to songs, you can see only you two dancing along it, especially if it is romantic. A series of ‘WHAT IF…..’ questions start coming to your mind every now and then. Like ‘what if I propose her?’ or ‘what if she might not have feelings for me?’ or ‘what if I ask her on a date?’. And it is funny to say that ‘we assume the answer according to what we want and not according to what she may say’! You might even know that she can’t be with you always but the very feeling of being with her, though for a very little time, can make wonders for you! Waiting for her call if she told you that she will, and you go on becoming restless as time passes. You stand at some place and then you see your watch, that time you realise that you had been standing exactly in that place for an hour or so. Moreover you don’t know that you are on highway or at home. Only thing that matters is the thoughts about her in your mind. Not being able to sleep – you might have heard about this a thousand times, but when you two are separated by a distance, the day you are going to meet her becomes the longest day ever.

It is amazing what love can make you do! You stay awake just because she asked you to wake her up at 5 in morning. You never cut her call even if you were to be on death bed! You start understanding the language of her eyes which you thought would never exist. Her love can make you quit anything and her smile makes ‘you addicted of her’. You never care what the world is doing, all you need is her touch in every sad moment for it makes you realise what world actually means….You do anything she asks you to and you go anywhere she wants you to!

A boy and girl can’t be only friends if they are special only for each other. For the people who might not understand whether their friendship with the opposite sex is ‘just friends’ or ‘more than just friends’  click here. I don’t assure you that you would find the answer, but it would definitely help you understand your relations!